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"I am an ethereal being who is ready to put sunshine on your face and love in your heart". People just
exist, that is a fact. In general society sets happiness as the purpose of life and it depends on each
person to be happy.
Happiness is an abstract concept which varies in each person. Some people never
stop to think about a particular purpose. They fight to survive or live without any motivation. Other
peopleç?÷?ç?×??÷ƒç?×??÷?s main purpose is bound and gagged japanese women to make money or
look for money, others make love or look for love, and others focus on the welfare of their children
and their family.
Some people want power, fame, degrees and personal growth. In other words, the purpose
of life is to look for something that is missing or something that people believe makes them feel good,
very good, and very happy.
In my opinion the human being is extremely gifted at being happy but most
people ignore that.Women usually are looking for friendship first, then love and finally sex. Men want
sex first, then friendship and lastly love.
Regarding love, I think it can sprout, grow and die. It
all depend if there is a good environment for it. Love is a special feeling which appears when some
conditions are favorable and only can survive if those conditions remain.
The ideal situation is when
that feeling is mutual but unfortunaly that does not happen frequently. Sometimes it happens at the
beginning.
Love is composite of several parts but mainly it is supported by affection and sex. Everybody
expects to find love with quality and balance of both components. Most of the couples have a dysfunction
because love is not mutual and either affection or sex or both are missing.
In any of those cases of
dysfunction, people take different alternatives: Divorce or keep the relationship. If the person decides
to keep the relationship they have two options either being faithful or unfaithful.
People who choose
to be faithful conform to the deficiency in the relationship and hope one day it will be fixed. These
people run the risk of becoming frustrated.
On the other hand, people who decide to be unfaithful seek
that part which is missing in their relationship. They have to be very careful and astute as to not
ruin their lives and the lives of others.
To me, being faithful or not is just matter of making the
decision and itç?÷?ç?×??÷ƒç?×??÷?s a respectful decision because everybody has the right to pursue
happiness.
However to minimize the effect of hurting people by being unfaithful I think it is extremely
necessary to choose the right person. That person should be honest, discrete and also a good lover..
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